Make room for everyone on game night.

Choose the pace as a group

Ask everyone what kind of evening they want: energetic, relaxed, competitive or co-operative. A shared answer is more useful than assuming the most experienced player knows what everyone will enjoy. Give people room to say they would prefer something quieter.

Make the first round a practice round

Spend a few minutes explaining the controls and let everyone try them. Keep the first round free of expectations. A little patience at the beginning can make the whole evening more comfortable, especially when some people are completely new to the game.

Share the jobs, not just the screen

In a co-operative challenge, say what you are going to do before doing it. Agree on a simple plan, then adjust it together. Instructions are easier to follow when they are specific and kind. “I'll take this side” is usually more helpful than a running commentary on someone else's mistakes.

Sort out the practical details

Charge controllers, check how many players the exact version supports and make sure everyone can see the screen. For online sessions, confirm accounts, connection requirements and communication settings beforehand. Use a private session when you want to keep the group to people you know.

Leave room to stop or switch

Agree that anyone can suggest a break. If the pace stops being enjoyable, change the activity or call it a night. A game night can be successful without finishing a campaign, clearing a difficult level or setting a new record.